Women, especially those in the rural areas, continually experience harmful cultural and religious practices that tend to present them as sub-humans. Amongst these are the dehumanizing widowhood practices in certain sections of the Nigerian society where widows are required to mourn their late husband for up to twelve months.
During the mourning period, the woman’s hairs are shaved, the nails are cut and she is taken to nearby stream and given shabby bath as a demonstration to her that her crown has been stripped. These inhuman rites are enforced on the widow in spite of her health condition. They sleep and eat alone (not even with their own children), eat only food prepared by fellow widows, and are compelled to take early morning bath with cold water irrespective of the weather conditions. They are also compelled to stay indoors, restrained from public gatherings and restrained from sitting on the same chair with other women whose husbands are still alive.
In some traditions, the widows and their children are denied their rights to inheritance and access to their family wealth which is instead shared amongst the relatives of the late husband, thereby exposing the widow and her children to rejection, loneliness, emotional trauma and economic hardship.
In a bid to abolish the obnoxious acts against women, United Nations enacted “Convention on the Elimination of all forms of Discrimination Against Women (CEDAW)”. In the year 2013, the then Honourable Minister of Women Affairs, Hajia Zainab Maina called on Nigerian lawmakers at all levels to enact legislations that would abolish all forms of oppressive, injurious and degrading widowhood practices in Nigeria, including legislation against harmful traditional practices that continue to place women at the lower rung of social and economic ladder. She informed that widows in some parts of Nigeria are still denied the right of inheritance, and often “inherited” as part of the property by close relatives of her late husband.
Working with first hand information and experience, LoiseFortune Needy and Widowhood Empowerment Foundation (LFNWEF) found the urgent need to intervene through a formal and well articulated structural framework for action implementation.